Etiquette & Frequently Asked Questions

Etiquette

I view the moments we share as something rare, deserving of care, respect, and genuine attention. The following notes are simply here to ensure our time together unfolds with ease and mutual pleasure.

Deposits

A deposit is required to secure our date and reflects your commitment.

– Shorter engagements: 30% deposit.

– Fly-Me-To-You or extended dates: 50% deposit plus travel fees.

Upon Arrival

Please place the remaining contribution in an unsealed envelope and leave it in plain sight within the first ten minutes of our meeting. If we’re meeting in public, you may hand it to me discreetly tucked inside a book or greeting card.

Hygiene & Presentation

I’ll always arrive well-groomed and dressed appropriately for our plans. I take impeccable care of myself and kindly expect the same from you: a fresh shower and clean presentation make our time together more enjoyable for us both.

Punctuality

If you’re running late, I allow up to 10 minutes of delay. Should I ever be delayed, I’ll ensure our full time together is honored.

Cancellations

Life happens, but cancellations affect carefully planned schedules. Deposits are non-refundable in the event of cancellation.

With at least 72 hours’ notice, your deposit may be applied to a future date. Please give as much notice as possible if your plans change.

Personal Time During Extended Dates

For overnights, I require at least seven hours of uninterrupted sleep. For multi-day bookings, I’ll need a few hours each day to recharge - gym time, self-care, and checking in with loved ones. This ensures I can be fully present for you.

  • My minimum booking is one hour. However, I always encourage longer engagements when possible; time has a way of moving differently when the chemistry is right. I don’t offer shorter meetings, though you’re welcome to depart early if needed.

  • Cancellations made within 48 hours of our date require the full donation, as time is reserved exclusively for you. I appreciate your understanding and respect for the energy and planning that goes into every meeting.

  • A 30% deposit is required to confirm our date. My preferred methods are Cash App or Venmo, though I also accept BTC and Uber gift cards. Once received, your time is exclusively yours.

  • If you don’t have references, that’s completely fine, there are alternative ways to verify. I may request a photo ID (such as a driver’s license) or a few additional details to confirm your identity. Discretion is an essential part of my world; everything shared is kept strictly confidential and deleted immediately after verification.

  • I always appreciate at least 24 hours’ notice so I can give you my full attention and create the best experience possible. That said, I understand life can be spontaneous. If my schedule allows, I may accommodate same-day arrangements.

  • Mutual respect, kindness, and good communication are everything. I hold myself to a high standard of care that is attentive, present, and considerate of your boundaries, and I expect the same in return.

  • A thoughtful gesture is always appreciated but never expected. I love champagne, candles, art or poetry books, cat-safe flowers, or anything from my wishlist. You can find ideas on my LuxyList, but truly, thoughtfulness is the most meaningful gift of all.

  • With advanced notice, I will do my best to accommodate an outfit request.

Additional details can be found under consideration